Whether you’re celebrating a milestone, treating yourself, or surprising someone special, I’m here to help you feel empowered and ready to rock your shoot. Here’s a helpful guide to prep like a pro, covering everything from location to outfit choices, hair, makeup, and beyond from a Moody, Alternative Minnesota Boudoir Photographer.
1. Choosing Your Location
First up, let’s talk about where the magic will happen. Whether you prefer an intimate studio setting or an edgy outdoor backdrop, the location sets the tone for your shoot. Here are a few ideas:
Home Sweet Home: If you want a personal touch, consider shooting at your home. Cozy corners and your favorite spots can add an authentic feel.
Stunning Studios: Opt for a professional studio that allows for flattering natural lighting and offers a variety of props and backdrops.
Outdoor Adventures: Think urban environments with graffiti, secluded beaches, or lush gardens. The right backdrop can elevate your photos from good to jaw-dropping.
2. Outfit Selection
Now, let’s get to the fun part—choosing your outfits! Boudoir is all about feeling confident and sexy. Here are some tips, along with my top lingerie brand recommendations:
Lingerie Love: Pick pieces that make you feel fabulous.
Beyond Lingerie: Undies aren't your style? Grab an oversized tee, bodysuit, your man's dress shirt or sports jersey, jeans paired with a more revealing top, dresses, robes, sweaters with comfy socks... you're not restricted to the norm! This is also a great option for those who don't want to be too revealing.
Layer Up: Consider adding layers like robes, sweaters, or even a leather jacket to create variety in your looks.
Accessories Matter: Statement jewelry, hats, fishnet stockings, or killer heels can amp up your style. Just remember, comfort is key—if you’re not feeling it, it won’t show in the photos.

Brands to consider:
Thistle and Spire offers stunning, intricate designs that exude sultriness.
Lounge combines comfort with chic aesthetics for a more laid-back vibe.
Calvin Klein is a classic and offers a modern feel.
Playful Promises boasts size inclusive options for any body type.
Honey Birdette is a high end brand if you're looking for luxury.
Amazon is always a tried and true option as well to find a range of styles based on your budget.
There's a brand for every variety of style that cater to different tastes, so you’re bound to find something that resonates with you!
3. Hair and Makeup
Let’s talk glam! The right hair and makeup can transform your look and boost your confidence.
Hair: Go for a style that complements your outfits and vibe. Loose waves, a sleek updo, or tousled bedhead can all work beautifully. If you’re unsure, a professional stylist can help you nail the look.
Makeup: This can be whatever makes you feel like the best version of yourself. My suggestion is to aim for a sultry yet natural look. Think smoky eyes, bold lips, glowing skin. If you’re not comfortable doing your own, consider hiring a makeup artist to enhance your natural beauty.
4. Mental Preparation
Beyond the physical aspects, getting in the right mindset is crucial. Here are some tips:
Self-Care Rituals: Take a moment for yourself before the session. Whether it’s a warm bath, a good book, or a playlist of your favorite empowering songs, do what makes you feel good.
Confidence Boost: Remind yourself that this is about celebrating you. Embrace your unique beauty and remember that I’m here to guide you every step of the way.
5. Day of the Shoot
On the day of your session, here are a few last-minute tips:
Hydrate and Nourish: Drink plenty of water and eat a light meal before your shoot. You want to feel energized and glowing!
Pack Your Bag: Pack items that make you feel confident and comfortable. Include a cozy robe, snacks, and other essentials. Don't forget all of your outfits and accessories.
Touch-Up Kit: Bring along essentials like lip gloss, hair spray, or powder to keep you looking fresh throughout the shoot.
Practice Poses: Before you arrive, spend a few minutes practicing poses in front of a mirror. This can help you feel more confident when it’s time to hit the camera. I'll help you pose during the shoot and fine tune each pose from head to toe ensuring you look your best!
Arrive Early: Give yourself time to settle in and relax. This is your moment, so take a deep breath and soak it all in. This also gives time for any touch ups for your hair and makeup or to finalize your outfit. This also helps get the most out of your photoshoot time.
Communicate Your Vision: If you have specific ideas or poses in mind, don’t hesitate to share them with me! Collaboration is key to capturing your unique style.
A final word from your moody, alternative Minnesota Boudoir Photographer:
Preparing for your boudoir session should be as fun as the shoot itself! Embrace the edgy, laid-back vibe, and let your true self shine through.
This is your moment to unleash your inner muse. Embrace your alternative style—think bold colors, edgy accessories, or unique lingerie that reflects your personality. Maybe it’s a vintage corset that screams confidence or an unexpected pop of glitter that adds a playful touch. Whatever it is, own it!
Consider incorporating elements that make you feel powerful. Whether it’s your favorite band tee, dramatic eyeliner, or statement boots, bring those aspects of your identity into the session. Remember, confidence is the most attractive accessory, and the camera will capture every bit of that energy.
I’m here to capture your beauty in the most sultry and authentic way possible, and I can't wait to celebrate YOU!
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For more in-depth styling and advice, email me and ask for my Boudoir Guide!
Feel free to reach out with any questions or ideas you might have. Let’s create something unforgettable together!
Sydney Kate Photography
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